He used and dumped me! Every time I hear women utter these disconcerting, worn-out clichés, I just want to grab them by the ear and shout into their eardrums that the sisterhood is not proud of them. Don’t get me wrong. I genuinely get it. It is painful, it hurts to the very core to build a relationship with someone, regardless of the terms of that relationship, only for them to end it, sometimes begrudgingly, mostly with no tangible reason. You will feel used, especially when you recount all that you invested in that relationship, the bending over, slapping against the wall, turning over, and all the other antics you explored in the bedroom together. So yeah, you are within your rights to feel whatever you want to feel. But let me get this, though. What exactly does it mean when women say he used and dumped me? How do…